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Does An Obsession For Success Kill The Passion For Life?

This is a guest post by Matthew Ferry from an article titled Does An Obsession For Success Kill The Passion For Life? - Life Coaching Training.

Deluxe. Several times I was moved, elated, bouncing and feeling so happy being right here, right now.

In the last month I read all four Twilight books and I was so blown away by how it made me feel.

Iím sitting here thinking. Where have I been? What have I been doing? What have I been waiting for?

When was I going to start appreciating art, beauty and artistry again? After I achieved what? What does achieving have to do with appreciation?

I remember being a teenager and I was moved, touched, inspired, sparked, enraged and validated by song, art, film and theater. I would get enraptured by sporting events rooting for the underdog!!

Where did that go? Iíve been so busy creating a life that someday I can enjoy, Iíve completely ignored my natural appreciation. Why has my hunt for success, fortune and fame been so all consuming?

Today I just got present to how The Drunk Monkey has owned me for the last 20 years as I chased the elusive destination called success. Now Iím here and I canít believe I wasted so much time on it.

I didnít need to live in a multi-million dollar house, burn through luxury cars or have 20 pairs of pimp shoes. I could have been appreciating, digging, grooving, dancing, singing, cheering on the under dog, and moved to tears the entire time. No stuff is required to feel and experience.

As I wipe the tears from my eyes, I realize that Iím happy that I went for the elusive prize for you.

Iím grateful that my heartache can be a marker, a beacon for you. So I can share with you my journey and tell you its not worth obsessing over the destination called success. No matter how much I achieve I still havenít proved to the elusive ďthemĒ that Iím good enough or a part of the group or worthwhile or even of value.

The rules I was taught donít apply. The promises that I was sold on didnít get fulfilled. So I am going out on my own and making up my own rules.

Live now! Appreciate now! Listen to more music, roll on the ground with your kids, forgive your parents, smell the roses, stare at sunsets.

I know it sounds like sappy self help bulls*** but no matter how much stuff you have it doesnít change your ability to appreciate. And achieving success will not change your experience and appreciation.

I dare you to stop and appreciate everything you come across today and see what happens.

About The Author

Matthew Ferry a Life Coach,The Life Coaching Company Matthew Ferry International offers life coaching, law of attraction and dozens of training products and seminars relating to the law of attraction to help you find your passion and love your life.

Visit Matthew at http://matthewferry.com/blog/.

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